Stop Chasing; And Start Tap Dancing

If you love what you do as much to tap dance to work every morning – you can eat junk, don’t bother going to gym – still, you will live healthy at 90. 

For six (short) hours, Warren. age 88 and Charlie, age 95, imparted their life long wisdom to an audience of forty thousand, jammed pack in an arena, at the recent Berkshire Hathaway Shareholder meeting. Warren and Charlie addressed a wide variety of questions asked by an even wider spectrum of audience. Ranging from a 9-year-old girl to a journalist from a top media company in the country. Throughout those six hours the duo’s physical stamina, alacrity, and articulation were impeccable.


For days after the meeting, I kept wondering what get these guys going? What’s the secret behind them being so healthy and so energetic at this age? It is well known that they do live a simple life despite being billionaires, but it is also well known that Warren’s daily diet consists of a three dollar seventeen cents (or less) breakfast from McDonald’s and the rest of the day is all burger and fries, and on top of that he chugs half a dozen or more cokes in a day. Neither of them is known as a workout buff; all in sharp contrast to what all the health and lifestyle pundits say. And despite that this pair of octogenarian and nonagenarian is in nearly perfect health and runs a half a trillion-dollar conglomerate, making day to day decisions on $200B investments on their own without any analyst staff, and manages eighty CEOs who operate a wide variety of businesses for them.


After a few days of mulling over this question, it struck to me that Warren has given a plausible answer in his annual letter to shareholders many years ago, “Charlie and I tap dance to work every morning.” Beyond doubt, they love what they do, and it is evident that’s the source of their happiness. And their happiness is the reason for their success, not the other way around. 


When I look around, most of the people, who typically spend most of their day at work or thinking about work, I haven’t seen anyone tap dancing to it. On the contrary to work being a source of happiness, it’s the source of stress for many. Solution? Pile on more of diet, sleep, exercise and stress management regiments and pursuit of other things in search of happiness in remaining of the day or whatever is left. Result? More things chasing whatever fewer hours left in a day. Not to say added guilt and stress that keeps creeping up with the feeling of not able to keep up. I am sure these are all good things to do – diet, exercise, sleep, and others – but is it solving the problem or just deferring it, possibly making it worse?

So I guess it’s the time to ask the question, what do you love to do and what will make you tap dance to work where you spend most of your time, every day? The for-sure answer is not easy at all but worth thinking, seeking, and trying. 

Sanjay Patel

PS: Best things in life are free. Berkshire’s annual shareholders meeting video archive since 1998 archive is recently published on CNBC; Warren’s annual letter to shareholders since 1977 is available on Berkshire Hathaway’s website – a priceless source of knowledge, wisdom, and learning.

Comments

8 responses to “Stop Chasing; And Start Tap Dancing”

  1. Usha Kotamarti Avatar
    Usha Kotamarti

    My thoughts are that very few people are blessed with the intelligence and risk taking ability. Even if one figures out what they love to do, if that does not bring food to the table or provide comforts of life, one does not pursue their passion. Very few are lucky enough to even know what their passion is. :).

    1. Sanjay Patel Avatar

      Thank you for the comment. True. Many of us would know more about others than ourselves. In my opinion it is about developing awareness of one self – I call it “self-discovery”. For some it comes naturally for other requires efforts. I like reading biographies of successful people and I have seen common thread where successful people have consciously made efforts to discover themselves and that discovery has guided them. One in particular I like is “Education of a value investor” by Guy Spier. Not only the author portrays his self-discovery but his reading list and study of human psychology is impressive. To begin is the key, rest will evolve. Thanks again for the comment.

  2. Amit Dave Avatar
    Amit Dave

    Completely agree with Usha Kotamarti that very few are blessed with intelligence or insight towards their passion.

    On risk taking ability, I have a different perspective. Bringing food to table may not be compelling for many but comforts to life is “the” factor for sure.

    It may be difficult to find passion for many, but can be easy for most to learn what s/he dislike.

    If one can get comfortable with comforts of life s/he gets with least of efforts, more efforts can be spared to find the passion.

    1. Sanjay Patel Avatar

      Thank you, Amit. I like your perspective – it is easier to learn what one dislikes. A good place to start.

  3. Sanchita Avatar
    Sanchita

    Interesting article, Sanjay. One needs to follow their heart for self discovery ( & perhaps at times IGNORE their mind) . However to pursue that passion one needs a deeper sense of self confidence & Determination . some lucky ones know their passion since childhood and dare to Pursue in that direction. for others it takes years! Happiness to me is another dimension of life .. One can have it all but still be unhappy whereas someone else may be happy even with limited resources… The key is to find happiness is small little things which are much beyond 40 hours work week , outside the gd/PA’s and checkpoints.. its then during that process we may find our passion too ! ..

    1. Sanjay Patel Avatar

      Sanchita, thanks for sharing your perspective.

  4. Brian Soles Avatar
    Brian Soles

    Often is the time I look back and think, “If I had the chance to do it all over again, I would be weather forecaster. Where else could you consistently be wrong and continue to get paid? That must be a very liberating existence.”

    I do believe that longevity, in part, does come from having passion and meaning in your life. I really like the way this was portrayed in a movie from the early 90’s called City Slickers with Billy Crystal. If you haven’t seen it, it is the story of 3 middle aged friends that are navigating a tough patch of their lives that take a vacation by participating in a Cattle Drive. They come to realize that life is grander and broader than all of the things that bring them down and it is the choice to focus on what is meaningful that drives happiness.

    The reason I reference this movie is because I believe that for many people, what they are passionate about is not absolute and that is moral in that story. Sometimes what we are passionate about can be something that will take us years to work for but at other times there are things to be passionate about and it is at arm’s length. You can plan for tomorrow but you can only live in the moment.

    1. Sanjay Patel Avatar

      Brian, very well said. Thank you for sharing your perspective. Will add City Slickers movie on to watch list.

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