Make an Impact As a Manager

Over the years, many employees have come to me, even when I was no longer their manager, and acknowledged the positive impacts I have had on their careers and professional growth. Feedback like this has comprised some of the most fulfilling moments of my career. When it comes to employee motivation and making a positive impact, I follow some basic principles that I have learned and developed over the years. I would like to share my learning and thoughts with you.

Establishing Trust:  Knowing Each Other’s Story

Do you know their story?

Every individual is unique, defined through his or her own perceptions and life experiences. This drives what one believes about oneself – who he is, what he believes in, what he wants and why. These simple but powerful questions define what success or failure means for an individual. The essence of this understanding is one’s “story.” Knowing their story helps you understand their underlying interests and needs; and builds a foundation to develop a trusting relationship.

I had an employee performing a people manager role, who often felt frustrated and unappreciated. As I started to understand his story I realized he came from a technical background. He became a people manager as he perceived it to be the path of progress and recognition in a corporate hierarchy. But deep down he was still a technical person who gets fascinated and motivated by learning new technologies and architecting solutions.  Unfortunately, he was spending majority of his time in people management and administrative functions. I helped him build a path to pursue his interests by carving out an individual contributor role solely focused on architecting solutions. This propelled him, established him as a star performer, gained recognition and rewards that he would have never received as a people manager. He felt accomplished, motivated and happy with the job.

Do they know your story?

Many managers often make the mistake of not telling their story to their teams. You have to become vulnerable in this relationship – you have to tell them your story. Helping your teams to understand who you are, where you came from, what you believe in, what success or failure means for you individually, etc. this brings a personal touch and sense of genuineness in your relationship. This will help break the barrier of discomfort and open the door to a trust-based relationship.

This is even more crucial in today’s world as more and more organizations are going virtual with remote employees. A virtual organization brings flexibility for employees but at the same time drives sense of isolation. I remember a time when my team was re-organized and I had to report to a different manager located thousands of miles away in a different time zone. This made me nervous and insecure as I was preparing to attend my first one on one meeting with him, on the phone.  Contrary to my expectation, in this first meeting, he did not spend time discussing work; instead he spent time telling his story. It was a genuine experience. My nervousness melted away. I walked away with a feeling that I had known him for years and a trust-based relationship was established in no time. 

Demonstrating Trust: Establishing Ownership

As you are establishing trust, there is a point where you have to demonstrate it with an action. You have to make it clear that you as a manager also have skin in the game. Your employee’s success is your success and his or her failure is your own personal failure.

I had a consistent “B” performer, a strong player but stayed within her comfort zone for several years and never made it as an “A” performer. I asked her to own a highly visible, cross-organizational initiative typically performed by an individual one level higher than her.  At first she felt nervous but she quickly realized I trusted her enough to put my reputation at stake by giving her this highly visible assignment. That established a strong sense of ownership in her. Her motivation level soared right away. She demonstrated her sense of ownership to the fullest, gaining recognition as a star performer from the leadership and managers beyond her immediate organization. Many of my peer managers wondered what caused her to turn into a star performer; it was all about demonstrating trust by establishing a sense of ownership.

Reward:  Show You Care

Managers often look for major milestones to reward people and accomplishments and it is easy to lose sight of the fact that these big milestones are built up of thousands of little steps. Every single step presents an opportunity to express gratitude and more importantly to show that you care about that individual and his or her contributions. Of course, you have to leverage all of the monetary and other tools available to you, but keep in mind at every small step there is an opportunity to reward – be it a recognition in a meeting, taking one out for a coffee, small gifts or even a thank you letter to their family with movie tickets – there is a lot that you can do. It will go long way.

I will always remember this conversation. It was a year when my team did extremely well but the company did not meet targets and decided not to give bonuses. I was dreading delivering this news to my team, in particular to my top performer of that year. When I informed him that he was not going to get a bonus, his response surprised me. Though he would have loved to have a bonus, he made clear that the biggest reward for him was an opportunity to work for me. He genuinely felt I cared for him. He remembered the time when I helped him at work while he was going through a family situation. Though to me helping him was not a big deal, for him it was a big act that conveyed I cared for him. That act developed a sense of loyalty and motivation.

In summary, to make an impact as a manager you have to establish trust with your employee by knowing his or her story, back that trust by your actions and reward him or her at every step of the journey.

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4 responses to “Make an Impact As a Manager”

  1. Usha Kotamarti Avatar
    Usha Kotamarti

    Good insight Sanjay. I agree that little timely appreciation goes a long way. Being a good listener also helps team morale. People appreciate managers who are genuine and are not insecure. Managers should encourage, utilize skills of the team members for the benefit of the organization, give due credit to the employees when deserved and not see them as a threat to his own well being. Keep the employees informed and engaged to drive innovation.

    Innovation is a key ingredient to successful organizations in my view. Innovation can be small. Key is to always have the thinking hat on.

    Keeping the team motivated is another challenge without proper rewards, especially if they stagnate at some level in the company. Please share your thoughts on that as well.

    1. Sanjay Patel Avatar

      Thank you for the comment. Every individual is a unique story including how one perceives the reward tangible or intangible. As a manager one can put a genuine effort to understand one’s story and help align to organization’s story for mutual growth. There will be cases when stories might not align i.e. one feels stagnated, in that case onus is equally on an individual to step up or step outside of the comfort zone to drive the change. As a manager one cannot control or influence many of the dynamics but putting genuine efforts will go long way. Thanks again for the comment.

  2. Brian Soles Avatar
    Brian Soles

    Some of the best management models you can observe are those of successful sports teams and there is no reason that same model would not work in the corporate work place. The coach’s job is to win but he/She cannot do that without the assistant coaches or the players. The coach’s strength comes from knowing the staff and the players, understanding the strengths and understanding the weaknesses. The coach creates plans to use the best combination of people for what the situation warrants. The coach recognizes individual achievement but never places a greater emphasis on that above the success team. The coach shows people where they can continue to improve, even the star players. The coach learns about themselves as they see the effect they have on the unit and on the individual performance. All of this comes from their connection at a human level.

    You can read a myriad of stories about this and the common thread is always that these successful teams feel like a family because of that human connection. There is respect and open communication between the coach and the members of the team as well as between the team members themselves. They know their role, they do their part and at the end of the day they know they are ONE team. It is remarkable and powerful to foster this environment and to watch possibilities unfold that you could scarcely imagine.

    1. Sanjay Patel Avatar

      Brian, thank you for your comments. John Heron’s six communication styles is a good read that go over different styles align to maturity of employees/team. Cathartic(Connecting at heart-human level) is at the of top the maturity curve followed by coaching style.

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